Comments on: When Self-Blame Seems Useful http://janethilts.com/when-self-blame-seems-useful Fri, 18 May 2012 21:22:00 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Janet Hilts | Strategic Self Kindness http://janethilts.com/when-self-blame-seems-useful/comment-page-1#comment-349 Janet Hilts | Strategic Self Kindness Sat, 02 Oct 2010 16:30:50 +0000 http://janethilts.com/?p=2456#comment-349 [...] have been talking about motivation and also about self blame. Now here’s where these two topics come together: using self kindness as a [...] [...] have been talking about motivation and also about self blame. Now here’s where these two topics come together: using self kindness as a [...]

]]> By: Janet http://janethilts.com/when-self-blame-seems-useful/comment-page-1#comment-323 Janet Thu, 12 Aug 2010 14:27:53 +0000 http://janethilts.com/?p=2456#comment-323 Hi Juan, I'll bet a lot of people can identify with your experience -- and with feeling annoyed about it. Sounds like you're really aware of how self-blame is not serving you now, so that's great. You have a clear picture of what you want to release. How would you like to motivate yourself instead? What are some positive ways to pull yourself forward? And what resources can you use to help release those old habits connected to self-blame? I know you're on the right path if you're hooked up with Club Fearless and EFT. And I'm pulling for you! All the best, Janet Hi Juan,
I’ll bet a lot of people can identify with your experience — and with feeling annoyed about it. Sounds like you’re really aware of how self-blame is not serving you now, so that’s great. You have a clear picture of what you want to release. How would you like to motivate yourself instead? What are some positive ways to pull yourself forward? And what resources can you use to help release those old habits connected to self-blame? I know you’re on the right path if you’re hooked up with Club Fearless and EFT. And I’m pulling for you!

All the best,
Janet

]]> By: Juan Nasarro http://janethilts.com/when-self-blame-seems-useful/comment-page-1#comment-322 Juan Nasarro Thu, 12 Aug 2010 02:10:43 +0000 http://janethilts.com/?p=2456#comment-322 Hello Janet, I just posted a message on Club Fearless kind on this subject. It is silly it's like chasing the surf at the beach when your a kid. Run down as the water recedes, and as the wave crashes on the beach and rushes back up you turn and run avoiding the wet and salty (depending where you live) cold water. Seems like I have experienced this back and forth activity throughout my life. I get annoyed at myself for this kind of thinking. All I want to do is over come it. Opportunities & relationships that i have squandered due to this. I am going to your above post to watch now. Thank you for the ear. #JUAN Hello Janet,
I just posted a message on Club Fearless kind on this subject. It is silly it’s like chasing the surf at the beach when your a kid. Run down as the water recedes, and as the wave crashes on the beach and rushes back up you turn and run avoiding the wet and salty (depending where you live) cold water. Seems like I have experienced this back and forth activity throughout my life. I get annoyed at myself for this kind of thinking. All I want to do is over come it. Opportunities & relationships that i have squandered due to this. I am going to your above post to watch now. Thank you for the ear. #JUAN

]]> By: Janet Hilts | Appreciating Yourself http://janethilts.com/when-self-blame-seems-useful/comment-page-1#comment-302 Janet Hilts | Appreciating Yourself Mon, 19 Jul 2010 01:23:40 +0000 http://janethilts.com/?p=2456#comment-302 [...] I’ve been writing about getting away from blaming yourself, I thought it might be good to offer ideas of what to do instead. What’s the flip side of [...] [...] I’ve been writing about getting away from blaming yourself, I thought it might be good to offer ideas of what to do instead. What’s the flip side of [...]

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