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How To Tap for More Effective Ways To Deal with Conflict If you find yourself avoiding conflict, this radio episode of Moving Forward with EFT is for you. Listen to a discussion about the reasons behind it. Then tap along to release some blocks so you can deal with conflict in a way that works [...]
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Sometimes an issue is demanding your attention. You might be thinking about it all the time. Or you’re having the feelings that are connected to it. Possibly your body is clamoring for help in connection with it. Or maybe your mind, body AND emotions are continuously reminding you of the problem. Meanwhile, the rest of [...]
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Why do you procrastinate anyway? For very good reasons. That’s right. And that’s the first thing to realize. It serves you in some way. It’s simply a response to something. So you have to look underneath that response – that behavior of procrastinating. Often it actually makes you feel safe. There’s a fear underneath – [...]
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Speaking from (way too much) personal experience, I know how it feels to be critical of other people — not so great. Even if I’m feeling so right about it all! It’s still a crummy feeling to experience. And it doesn’t change a darn thing except making me feel worse. So I want to pass [...]
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Keeping commitments to yourself is a huge deal because it’s the basis for trusting yourself. And sometimes you might be at the end of your list for keeping commitments. The things you’ve promised other people always come first. But this works like the oxygen mask on the airplane does: You have to take care of [...]
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This challenge showed up with a client yesterday, so I dusted off a topic from last year to remind us all about how tricky it can be to do EFT about the people we’re closest to. Resentment and hurt and love are often tangled up together. So when you tap on an issue with these [...]
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In my last post, I wrote about a huge urge to quit – to completely stop a big project I was working on. Now I want to share how I used EFT to get back in the groove with it. First I realized the urge was just my subconscious trying to protect me from possible [...]
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It happened to me last week. I was blind-sided by the urge to quit. Not just a quiet nudge but an overpowering, all-consuming command to quit. Everything in me was telling me to just give up on the big project I had been working on – something I had put a lot of time, thought [...]
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In the last post, I promised you some tips about how to use EFT to help you use self kindness as a strategy — and a habit. Here are my tapping suggestions: These are the steps to take to start using self kindness on a regular basis for yourself: 1. First, investigate your resistance to [...]
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Being gentle with yourself feels good. And it sounds like a good idea to strive for some day. But do you know that it’s also a very practical tool? I’ll tell you why I know this is true in this short video. I have been talking about motivation and also about self blame. Now here’s [...]
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