From the category archives:
Yes, here we are talking about self-blame again. That’s because it traps so many people, and because getting rid of it creates such freedom, that I’m covering another aspect of it here. In the last post, Self-Blame Or Personal Responsibility?, the emphasis was on how blaming yourself can creep in on you and keep you [...]
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We’re encouraged to take personal responsibility to empower ourselves. It does feel good, doesn’t it? I admit it can be scary, but the strength of it feels great. When I’m taking responsibility for my life and there’s a problem, I’m in charge of the solution. It’s my choice. Since I like being in charge, that’s [...]
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It can be easy to watch yourself stalling and just label it procrastination. Then what do you do about it? Do you scold yourself to try to get moving? Sometimes that can spur you on, but the momentum sure doesn’t last. And it feels awful! What feels better is to look a little closer. If [...]
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Pretty strange watching myself stall in the last week. I’m making changes in my business and seriously dragging my feet. I knew one big way I could help myself was to use EFT* and tap on my fears of change. Jeez! I mean, that’s what I do for other people. Get them unstuck using EFT. [...]
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(Rather listen? Turn up your speakers and click on the arrow.) You’re right in the middle of your project or a client session, going full-out. Feels great, doesn’t it? Just being totally immersed in what you love. Almost as if you and your work are one — no separation. On one level, that’s an amazing [...]
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Beliefs are simply thought patterns. Thought patterns are created from thinking the same thought over and over again. That’s it! That’s all that beliefs consist of. However, the consequences of beliefs are far from simple. Beliefs drive our behavior, our actions and our decisions. They are powerful and ultimately determine our level of happiness, effectiveness [...]
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When you’re stuck, the most powerful first step you can take is to release your self-blame. I see this with countless people in so many different situations. The same step works for them all. Blaming yourself is a crippler and a complete action-stopper — which is why letting it go creates astonishing freedom to move [...]
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(If you’d rather listen, turn up your speakers and click the arrow.) “Chase down your passion like it’s the last bus of the night.” I love that quote from Glade Byron Addams! It has some real fire to it, and dreaminess, and hope — all great things to experience. The chase is so romantic, isn’t [...]
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How can you be sure what your gut sensation is really saying? Is it your intuition, your Highest Self speaking to you? Is the wise part of you telling you this is the wrong choice for you? A solid “knowing” that another option is better? Or is that feeling just resistance to something that could [...]
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As women, our connections are our lifeblood. Relationships form the foundation of our world, don’t they? I’m sure you recognize how they impact everything you do. And whether you realize it or not, your relationships have a huge effect on all the choices you make, too: how you spend your time who you spend time [...]
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